Warning: If your spouse has dropped the “divorce” bombshell and does not wish to work on saving your marriage, then this might be the most important letter you’ll EVER read…
Why Your Spouse Is Lying To You About The Reasons They Want A Divorce…
Here’s How To Discover The Truth, Cut Through The Lies And Pain, Stop Divorce Dead In Its Tracks, And Rebuild The Strong, Intimate Marriage You’ve Always Wanted… Even If Your Spouse Doesn’t Want To!
From: Amy Waterman
I’m not going to lie about your marriage and tell you everything is going to be okay.
The bottom is dropping out of your world right now. Your marriage, everything you love and treasure, everything you have worked your life for, everything that’s familiar to you… it’s all on a knife-edge.
You can’t eat… can’t sleep… can’t think straight…
Your health is in free fall due to the enormous stress you are under. Your whole life and future happiness, something that at one time seemed so certain, now hangs precariously in the balance, waiting for you to make the next move.
The marriage is about to jump off a cliff… is it going to take you with it?
I have THREE things to share with you that will immediately disarm the threat of divorce and work on rebuilding and saving your marriage RIGHT NOW if you do them, but you have to listen carefully and do them without hesitation if you want to save your marriage. It’s that important.
STOP what you are doing right now. The misguided methods and well-meaning ideas you have used up until now have not worked. That’s why you are here and your marriage is teetering even closer towards divorce. What you have done may be pushing your spouse even further away, even into the arms (and the bed) of another person. It’s time to rethink and relearn everything you ever thought about how to save your marriage and get your dream life back.
Break forever the chain of lies, the resentment, and the doubt. The never ending negative spiral of arguments that has catapulted you and your spouse from happily married to the gates of hell and the very real possibility of divorce. No matter how complicated or unique your marriage issues are. I have the key that will stop the arguing and negativity dead in its tracks. This will focus you and your spouse back on YOU AND YOUR MARRIAGE, and open your eyes to the love that still simmers beneath.
Turn your spouse around and make them LOVE you, CHERISH you, and DESIRE you again, so completely and powerfully that your marriage is the strongest it has ever been and is immune to the threat of breakup and divorce ever again.
It might sound impossible right now to visualize your renewed, loving marriage again… But I promise you, if you read through this page and do what it says. You’ll be shocked at how quickly your marriage turns around for the better. How the communication with your spouse will go from awkward and angry to nurturing and positive, and how you will have the loving spouse and the strong, supportive marriage you have always dreamed about and deserve.
That mind-numbing, consuming pain that has taken over your entire body that is with you every moment of every day will become a distant memory, as you use and apply my life-changing skills and key psychological secrets to your marriage, and make sure that you never face these sickening feelings of loss and loneliness ever again.
I am going to reveal to you my life-changing methods for saving your marriage, but first I have a very important truth to share with you before carrying on…
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Your Spouse Is Lying To You About The Real Reasons They Want A Divorce
Chances are they don’t want to tell you what their real reasons are… for fear of hurting you, for fear of making them look bad, or they might not even fully know or understand the real reasons themselves.
If you want to discover the truth and cut through the lies and ultimately save your marriage, there are several things you are going to have to learn and apply before you are able to make that happen.
If you’re like the thousands of couples I’ve helped over the years, you’ll have heard or used a few of the following reasons for ending a marriage:
- “I love you but I’m not in love with you anymore…”
- “We’ve grown apart.”
- “You’re not exciting or fun anymore.”
- “I’ve met someone else and I think I love them…”
- “I hate you!”
- “You’ve changed.”
- “I’m sick of your nagging!”
- “I don’t want to be married anymore and there’s nothing you can say that will make me change my mind.”
Any of these sound familiar?
I know that when your marriage is teetering on a cliff edge it can feel like you are the only one in the world this is happening to, and feel completely devastated at hearing one of these lies, but let me tell you that you are not the only one who has heard these excuses and none of these have to spell the end of your marriage if you don’t want it to.
It’s about cutting through these lies, digging deep, and exposing the real reasons your marriage is in trouble, tackling the core of your crisis rather than going over the same old ground and having the same old arguments again and again… learning nothing and getting no further ahead!
The difference between a marriage that ends in divorce and one that fights back and survives is using and developing the right techniques and strategies that your marriage needs… at the optimum right time. It’s about understanding and reconnecting with your core self and the crucial role you play in saving your marriage, even if you are the only one that wants to save it, the values you want to bring to your marriage, what to say, how to say it, and when, and developing this into a formula for success!
My Save My Marriage Today system will strip back the lies you have been told and teach you fundamental values, communication, and relationship skills that will not only bring your marriage back from the brink of divorce, but will give you a solid foundation from which to build an even better marriage and future that will GUARANTEE you will never face the searing, body-numbing pain of a marriage crisis or breakup ever again.
I’ve seen the most toxic and damaged marriages that appeared to be absolutely beyond repair turned around and saved, becoming stable, intimate, loving unions, stronger than ever. Heaps of people have bounced back from a huge range of nightmare issues, such as:
- lingering and poisonous unresolved conflicts
- extra-marital affairs
- emotional detachment and a lack of physical intimacy
- excessive fighting and negative thinking
- ineffective communication or long bouts of stony silence
- busy schedules overtaking quality couples time
- a suspicious, untrusting, or suffocating partner
- children and family issues
- trial separations
- and many more complex and difficult situations
I’ve helped over 6000 couples disarm and stop divorces from happening to them, and I’m telling you I can deliver the same great results for YOU and YOUR MARRIAGE… even if you are the only one that wants to save it!
Keep reading and I’ll tell you how to resolve your marriage problems and gain the intimate and supportive relationship you always dreamed of!
But first, let me tell you a little bit about who I am and why I know what I’m talking about.
Why Should You Listen To Amy Waterman?
I’m a professional writer specializing in attraction and dating, but most specifically marriage counseling and relationship guidance. I have extensive experience in helping thousands of people re-establish love with my unique insightful and powerful secrets into attracting love and making relationships work.
It’s my life’s passion. Over the years I have helped thousands of men and women fix their marriages and unhappy relationships and also bring back the love and communication to couples that are suffering.
I am the author and host of:
- Save My Marriage Today
- I have also co-authored and hosted a number of other leading online courses such as:
- How to Be Irresistible to Men
- Make Every Man Want You More
- Seduction Genie
- 2nd Chance: How to Win Back the Love of Your Ex
- Conversation Chemistry
- Supreme Self Confidence
- Real Women, Real Love
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Here’s what others say about me:
Amy Waterman is one of those rare, priceless women in the world of dating and relationship advice who respects women and men equally and therefore sets herself apart as a respected voice to both genders. Her work consistently portrays the warmth and compassion of a woman who is truly doing what she was born to do. And given the thousands of of people worldwide who her work has been so meaningful to–ourselves included–that earns her our highest recommendation. We’re proud to work with Amy any chance we can get, and can’t wait to do so again soon.”
“Having the pleasure of knowing Amy personally, we can vouch that she is extremely thorough and passionate about the work that she does. She leaves no stone unturned in making sure that her readers get the results that they expect and more. We’ve never met someone so dedicated to the long term success of others and who takes such great pride in her work. We can all learn a lot from Amy’s advice and attitude to life and love.”
Why Do I Care About Helping You So Much?
You might think that nobody on earth can know what it’s like to be you right now… But trust me, I do.
My best friend Jane thought her entire world had ended when her husband came home one night and asked for a divorce, telling her that it was over and nothing could make him change his mind.
She stared in shock, she cried, she asked for an explanation, but no answer she got really made sense.
Apparently her husband Adam had been unhappy for a while. Doing long hours at work, always coming home tired, he was sick of the monotony of his life and felt constrained by the expectations of his wife and family.
Jane was devastated. She had been married 14 years, had raised two children, and thought things were okay. Sure, things had been difficult in the early years with two small children, limited income, and a mortgage to pay, but they had got through it. Jane had got a part-time job in the last few years which helped with the bills, the children were getting less and less dependent, and Jane was looking forward to the next few years and what it would bring.
There were the occasional arguments over how much time Adam spent at work and how much he helped around the house. Jane was always tired with the kids and cleaning up after them every night, but she thought all couples had moments like this and she never gave it much more thought. They didn’t have much time for each other but that was often the case with being a parent.
But nothing prepared her for the bombshell Adam dropped on her.
That conversation turned her whole world upside down. Everything was a blur after that.
Teary… foggy… and numb.
The next few days were hell. Every waking moment was consumed with sickening fear of what was going to happen next. She had never felt this low, never felt so REJECTED, UNLOVED, and ALONE.
Was she going to lose the house?
How would she have enough money to support herself?
How would she tell her elderly parents? She knew it would just about destroy them.
Where would she live?
How would she tell the children?
How would she endure the humiliation, the stares and the gossip from the other parents at school, her friends?
It would be a lie to say Jane didn’t contemplate suicide in those first few weeks. She couldn’t sleep, she couldn’t eat, when she did try to eat she wanted to be sick. Her skin was terrible, her complexion drawn. She was a real mess. Her heart was broken and she felt utterly defeated.
She wanted it to end.
She reached out to me amid a teary phone call, telling me she didn’t have the strength to carry on with this. I took her under my wing and started from the beginning, sharing with her and teaching her everything I knew about how to save a marriage.
Slowly but surely, Jane got better. She got stronger. She got some of her old spark back. Furthermore she started to think clearly and avoided her first instinct to beg, blame, or be a victim. Using my guidance and advice, she learned all the essential steps on how to save her marriage. She could have turned away and let this defeat her… but she didn’t.
Jane didn’t want to give up and be another divorce statistic, no matter how hopeless it seemed at the beginning. She owed herself and her children better.
She applied the steps and strategies I gave her and started to win back her husband by doing things that at first seemed counter-intuitive. Step by step, day by day, there was a small breakthrough. She learned so much about herself and the tangible things she could do in those first few weeks, even when her husband was unresponsive. It was a total flip in the way she would have approached it, but it worked.
Slowly but surely Jane started using my techniques to let go of the anger and frustration and started communicating in a way she never had before. Bit by bit, the barriers were broken down and they started to talk, really talk, and the floodgates opened. No more fear, no more lies, no more unspoken expectations. Unbeknown to both of them, they were able to find a way forward and reconnect, and their marriage is now better than ever before!
Jane and her husband showed up at a party of mine recently and I couldn’t believe the difference… in just a few months from that devastating conversation, here they were totally loved up, hand in hand, laughing and smiling at each other, staring at each other with renewed energy and love… like a honeymoon couple!
To look at them you would never believe they had been at the gates of hell only a few short months ago… but the results speak for themselves!
Encouraged by their success I started writing down some of what I knew, refining it, researching and testing it, and developing it into a winning formula that would help more couples avoid the agony of divorce. It was this formula that formed the foundation of “Save My Marriage Today.”
Today I’ve helped over 6000 couples save their marriage and achieve astonishing success as they build a better future together, crazy in love like a honeymoon couple and having the skills to make sure they are never in crisis mode ever again.
I know it sounds CRAZY… but I know I can make the same great result happen for you… all that remains is for you to want your dream marriage back as bad as I want to help you achieve it!
It’s time you committed to making sure that your marriage is next!
Here’s What My System Will Teach You:
- Discover one of the most destructive things you’re probably doing to your marriage right now that is destroying your chances of saving it. Learn the key tips to make your spouse turn towards you instead of turning away.
- There are two emotions that you are probably holding onto that may be pushing your spouse into the arms (and eventually the bed) OF SOMEONE ELSE. Find out what those emotions are and how to keep them under check!
- How to positively and lovingly get your spouse to challenge their beliefs and attitude about what they think is wrong with your marriage. (I’ve seen this method help dozens of spouses reconsider their decision)
- Find out how to get your spouse to go crazy head over heels for you and desire you in a way you have never experienced! You will be amazed at how good it feels to have your spouse’s attention and affection again.
- Straying spouse? Apply my powerful 4 step formula to stop cheating dead in its tracks and rebuild a stronger relationship
- A powerful psychological tweak that will disarm the negative thoughts and feelings present, and help you view your spouse with trust, love, and happiness when you see them.
- The clever internal mind trick that will free you from distraction and supercharge your marriage saving power. This will actually give you a far higher chance of saving your marriage.
- Eliminate all possibility of your partner “pulling your strings” and take complete control of your emotional and internal responses to them… no matter what the situation.
- Outside-the-square tactics to strip back the lies and smokescreens and really pinpoint what the real issues are in your marriage. Most people discover that the REAL issues run deeper than what they think, and this pinpoint realization may be exactly what you need to get yourself and your marriage-saving mission back on track.
- Do you ever feel like the only way to resolve a conflict is by slamming the door and walking away? Or by punishing your partner? It doesn’t have to be this way. Find out incredibly powerful strategies for resolving your marriage conflicts in a more constructive and less emotionally stressful way.
- Discover why arguing is great for your marriage! I give you an in-depth look into what is actually going on in an argument… and how to understand what your partner is really doing when they are behaving irrationally and selfishly.
- An important step-by-step exercise to identifying exactly what your individual needs are as a person as well as fundamental needs of a relationship. I also show you how to fulfill those needs while still being the best spouse you can possibly be. I show you how… even if your partner is seemingly in the way.
- When your partner withdraws, do you feel like a victim, possibly cold and lonely? You need to know the essential steps to self-sustain, and how to keep your mood elevated. I show you how to be your best, most positive self at a time when you need it most.
- How to get out of the vicious cycle of reacting to problems, conflicts and situations, and move towards acting proactively. Learn and apply as I guide you through the critical steps that you need to take.
- Discover the shocking truth about trial separations and what they do for your marriage. You must read this before you implement this strategy.
- Even when you and your spouse do not live together, there are many actions you can undertake that will make a positive difference. Uncover the tangible things you can do while you are away from your spouse that will maximize your chances of getting back together.
- The secrets of a loving and fulfilling relationship: what must happen to keep BOTH OF YOU from screwing it up.
- You’ll learn how to respond to criticisms and attacks from your partner. I’ll show you how to interpret these criticisms and react positively so that you can diffuse the situation before it spirals out of control.
- What to do when yours or your spouse’s career has put a large strain on your marriage. This is an incredibly important issue, so I’ve devoted an entire chapter to resolving it, including practical exercises to help restore your relationship to a positive balance!
- Discover the unique set of challenges and stress on your marriage that results from the birth of a first child. You’ll learn how to navigate the challenges of this difficult period and how to get the love back into your relationship and your new family.